You’ve point to it. There’s nothing in Hawke I’d call a deal breaker, he’s arguably one of my closest friends and confidants and I don’t take those up often or easily. He’s supportive and kind and funny and he’s damn good in bed.

My only issue’d be his care for others outranks his care for his own state. It can build and fester and he’ll do little for it until it’s a chain. Whether he means to or not, he can make your issues feel like his chains. Which maybe that’s too much to say, but I think he’d do well with someone who can set a line in the sand but won’t shut him out for it either.

So my return question as someone who cares for him: do you think you might be that?