Those are the big ones, I'm particularly proud of you for 1 and 3, I was going to start there. There are all good.
5. Not every person is going to be kind. It leaves you open to manipulation or use and that can hurt you or those people you love most as well.
6. If you tie your being to those around you and you lose those people for any reason, it can be harder to put yourself back together again even with help, if you even allow yourself help.
It's okay to want to be reliable, it's okay to want those you love most to rely on you. It's not okay to be everything to everyone.
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5. Not every person is going to be kind. It leaves you open to manipulation or use and that can hurt you or those people you love most as well.
6. If you tie your being to those around you and you lose those people for any reason, it can be harder to put yourself back together again even with help, if you even allow yourself help.
It's okay to want to be reliable, it's okay to want those you love most to rely on you. It's not okay to be everything to everyone.