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[chrisisofaith]

One year's difference from the last one: eighteen.

She only doesn't know much about sex because her family sheltered her, not from a lack of desire to know.

[notleavingquietly]

Do I need to be worried about HER being taken advantage of?

[chrisisofaith]

Gods. Possibly. I'm trying not to.
She's sweet and it's very possible, but she is smart and we've talked a bit about it.

That said, she's an adult, she needs to make her own choices and if you were sending someone her way, I'd assume they weren't that type.

[notleavingquietly]

Not knowing that she could be, but I'm not certain where to find non-manipulative people. Do they exist here?

[chrisisofaith]

You're doing nothing for my paranoia

[notleavingquietly]

You're manipulative. It isn't always a bad trait.

[chrisisofaith]

Neither I’d bring an asshole

[notleavingquietly]

Which asshole?

[chrisisofaith]

Yours

[notleavingquietly]

What has Cy got to do with this?

[chrisisofaith]

OH he’s funny look at that.

[notleavingquietly]

He has a very acerbic way.

What were we talking about? Your paranoia? Why are you paranoid about people manipulating you? Let them when they're doing it to help.

[chrisisofaith]

I was talking about you not Cy

And no. I’ve had my fill of manipulation especially ‘for my own good’

[notleavingquietly]

Then when are you going to stop being manipulative?

[chrisisofaith]

Crais

[…]

I didn’t even realize I was until last time I was here. Those shadow versions of ourselves.

So at least I’m aware of it and I try to be kind.

[notleavingquietly]

I don't value kind.

I value good.

You manage good just fine. (Generally) good and manipulative aren't in opposition.

Please is manipulative.

[chrisisofaith]

What is it you’re looking for me to say?

[notleavingquietly]

I'm looking for you to stop being defensive about a normal sentient being social skill.

[chrisisofaith]

So you want me to just accept being manipulated by someone?

[notleavingquietly]

No, that part was fine. Your reaction to me pointing out that you are manipulative concerns me.

[chrisisofaith]

My reaction was from your stipulation that I had to stop being manipulative to expect to not be manipulated.

[notleavingquietly]

That was meant to be a transitory statement not a stipulation.

[chrisisofaith]

I can't tell if you're upset with me or not

[notleavingquietly]

There is nothing you can do that will make me upset with you, except walk away from me without warning or explanation.

[chrisisofaith]

I would never do that unless under supreme duress.
So
Good I guess