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[chrisisofaith]

I think that might work fine for him, based on what he said to me. At least might buy them another three months or so.

[notleavingquietly]

Yes. I'll keep the name. My list of people to recommend has... dwindled.

[chrisisofaith]

Yeah. Honestly, wasn't so sure of my options afore I made mention myself. I know most aren't interested in taking authority over others, but doesn't stop my hackles from rising.

Especially when there's times city forces it. Would rather that happens with someone I'll come out the other side of without resentment, personally.

[notleavingquietly]

I've never known many who are safely dominant and that number has been greatly reduced in the past few months.

It's negatively impacting my life, and not my sex life.

[chrisisofaith]

I'm not sure I follow, I'd assume one might affect other, you're not particularly dominant.

[notleavingquietly]

I greatly appreciate that you recognize that.

Most of the dominants I've slept with besides Cyram and Wolf haven't been particularly dominant, either.

[chrisisofaith]

Well you've got me. I could always be more dominant.

Have you asked them to be more dominant?

[notleavingquietly]

No. Why would I?

[chrisisofaith]

Crais, what?
For communication?
For telling them what you need?

[notleavingquietly]

I get what I need from people I trust. I trust two dominants still in this city.

I like several others and enjoy sex with them, but I am not submitting to them.

[chrisisofaith]

Yeah alright I get that last one.

Back to the first: need and want are two different things and if you trust them, shouldn't you trust them to tell them you want more or other things?

[notleavingquietly]

I tell the two I trust exactly what I want, and definitely what I need.

And you.

[chrisisofaith]

So you're more worried to the thought of losing more dominant options?

And I appreciate that.

[notleavingquietly]

I may be now, but I was primarily bothered by not having designated dominants I trust enough to recommend to uncontracted submissives.

[chrisisofaith]

Ah. yeah. Doesn’t help when you’ve friends you trust who you’d contract with yourself, except they’re other subs marked and you’re not sure about who they’re contracted to.

I’ve another name for your list. Eloise Bridgerton. She’s young and inexperienced with sex, but she’s clever and eager to learn new things, but with a solid head to her.

[notleavingquietly]

How young is young?

[chrisisofaith]

One year's difference from the last one: eighteen.

She only doesn't know much about sex because her family sheltered her, not from a lack of desire to know.

[notleavingquietly]

Do I need to be worried about HER being taken advantage of?

[chrisisofaith]

Gods. Possibly. I'm trying not to.
She's sweet and it's very possible, but she is smart and we've talked a bit about it.

That said, she's an adult, she needs to make her own choices and if you were sending someone her way, I'd assume they weren't that type.

[notleavingquietly]

Not knowing that she could be, but I'm not certain where to find non-manipulative people. Do they exist here?

[chrisisofaith]

You're doing nothing for my paranoia

[notleavingquietly]

You're manipulative. It isn't always a bad trait.

[chrisisofaith]

Neither I’d bring an asshole

[notleavingquietly]

Which asshole?

[chrisisofaith]

Yours