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[midnightroads]

How you handling, sweetheart?

[Because the check-in is important before he lays a potential problem (though a very fun one) at Chris's feet.]

[chrisisofaith]

Hello, Handsome

Better than I have been recently, a calm breath in chaos, I suspect.

How are you doing?

[midnightroads]

Busy. Jeff's decided he's going vegetarian, work's been work (both jobs). Generally speaking, things are alright.

I mean, for here.

Mostly.

[chrisisofaith]

That might be harder without your own garden to grow things

What’s mostly? Something on your mind?

[midnightroads]

Nothing bad, necessarily. I just met a guy who I'm not sure how to feel about.

Which is a problem for legal reasons. But also, he's got the entirely wrong designation, you know how it goes.

[chrisisofaith]

A little too well.

You don’t know how to feel about him? Aside from being a dom I assume, where’s the hang up?youve never struck me as someone who has problems with feelings or letting them be free

[midnightroads]

Did you know the city views me as a well-enough behaved Dom that they assign me to mentor folks after they've fucked up?

Which is awkward. Truly awkward. But like, no one knows I ever behave outside the lines, and keeping it that way is...well, some kind of a balancing act. Especially when the guy's kinda 'my type', because apparently I have one of those, here.

Down to swearing up and down that he's not gonna get in trouble for failing quota and not getting a contract. I mean, I contracted Jeff as a pound puppy after he assured me he'd be fiiiiine.

[chrisisofaith]

Oh
Being too much a good citizen

There are people who manage not to get caught, but also know they somehow keep track of that in the background, so even if you hide, it could come out at some point.
Then again, if it's worth it to you it's worth it to you.

Who are we talking about? Have I met him?

[midnightroads]

His name is Artemis, I don't know if you've met him.

But if you have, you know what I mean.

[chrisisofaith]

oh
I’ve met him
He got lost following one of those map pin things I sent

He also made an entire post to get people to take their shirts off, you sure he’ll have a problem with quota?

[midnightroads]

Great flirt, absolutely. But he lacks a certain...initiative? And a lot of experience.

[chrisisofaith]

Ah, that type.
I'm sure we could help him out some with both.

Have you considered inviting him to be part of a scene with one of your subs? Maybe guide him into what he should do with them or reverse it if he'd rather? Like teaching him

[midnightroads]

I might try something like that. But from the experience I've had with him, I don't think that he's going to be happy in a Dominant role anytime soon. Too in his own head about it.

So...what it'd look like in a room with him and one of my boys would probably be me domming both of them.

[chrisisofaith]

I know a few like that.

Could teach through example. He'd probably like it plenty.
Once you got him to stop trying to pass out from blushing
Don't get me wrong, it's sort of cute, but still

[midnightroads]

I'd ask if I was as awkward when I got here, but my first week I'd already turned Jeff over my lap and spanked him in public.

But yeah, teaching through example might be the way. The problem's not getting attached.

[chrisisofaith]

Is attachment bad?

Other than the dom/dom thing

[midnightroads]

The dom/dom thing is pretty important. I don't want him to get into trouble because I couldn't stop myself.

[Even if it's damned clear that Artemis is also not stopping himself.]

[chrisisofaith]

[Its a failing of his here, he knows, that he isn’t as concerned about the dom/dom relationship rules, but he’s really only known one person it seriously affected. Besides…]

Cant you manage subtly and subterfuge? Many have made such things work with care. I could point you in the direction of one whose lovers back home are both doms as he is.

[midnightroads]

I know I can.

But he is as subtle as rope-burn.

[chrisisofaith]

That is very true

Alright I see it one of three ways:
-you deal with the inevitable consequences if it’s worth it to you to try

-you disengage before it becomes more and keep a warm friendship with distance

-you try and dom for him and work subtlety into your arrangement with rewards and punishments for subtlety managed or not as needed and hope that helps on more than one level

[midnightroads]

...you know, I reached out to you to try to play matchmaker for you and him, not to get advice for me. :P

[chrisisofaith]

Oh…

I’ll seduce him fine and play gentle as he likes, mission plenty accomplished there

Now what are you gonna do for you?

[midnightroads]

I want to say I'll disengage. But I already know that's not happening. Because I'm a dumbass.

[chrisisofaith]

Because you care too much and too easy, lovely.

Just be careful for both you and him. I know you will, but it deserves saying.

[midnightroads]

No such thing as caring too much. I decided years before I got here--hell, before I ever met my father--that I was going to be kind as I could be, always, every time.